That’s really how it is. It s suddenly.  You can’t plan it, scheme it, orchestrate it or even really anticipate it.

That’s why all the books and all the advice can be the opposite of love.

Its somewhat like people writing about how the universe works, in absolute terms.  How can there just be one way? How can something so mysterious be known?

What makes love daunting perhaps is that because you don’t know when it is going to come, there’s a nagging angst that maybe it won’t come unless you work for it somehow:  with the books, the advice, the scheming and the guru advice all to get some love.

I have never seen any of it genuinely work. Have you?

Deep breaths for all of you single this Valentine’s Day, there is love everywhere and the good news is that you don’t have to plan it.  It appears. It transforms.  For everyone in love… enjoy it immensely and let it raise up your life.

What’s the best love story you know?

What’s the best love story you’ve lived?

Couldn’t get that from anywhere but through living life.

Forget the ways things should be. Love in your way, not the way you were told was right.  Love the way that feels right.  Whether romantically, in friendship, in family… in every way… you know best how to love.

And the big one’s, the romances, always seem to be full of great surprises… so stick around and enjoy the ride… ! xoxo Dana