What do you do when you’re confronted with liars, angry people, sociopaths at worst and drama at very best?

I’m often asked these questions, and while there are many nuances, there are universal “cures” for this kind of craziness.

Go on the adventure of breaking free. It will be one of the greatest adventures that raises your whole life to a new level.

While conventionally wisdom says that you shouldn’t let people bully you into making changes, I see these bully situations a bit differently after years of working with energy in profound ways.

It costs too much emotionally, physically, creatively and financially (since all are impacted) to deal with bullies as a future plan. 

Deeply toxic people will affect you negatively if you keep them close to you.  No one is immune.  It’s an energetic principle.  You can feel the avarice in the air.  It’s profound. The dogs bark when a few people like this even walk near the house.  

So, I don’t let toxic bullies push me into making changes I’m not ready to make.

Instead, if one pops up, I let it be a big sign from the universe that it’s time to go on an adventure.

I had two choices and I think we all pretty much have two choices in any situation: spend energy fighting what we don’t like or spend energy creating what we do like.

I stick to the creativity of desires. It hasn’t failed me yet.

The fighting just decimates life.

Clear the crazy from your life and you’ll never regret it for a single second.

I went out on my own to start a business after reaching that great big breaking point of being unwilling to fight for my dignity every day at oppressive jobs that I found over and again. I spend my last two years of having a day job consciously creating the life I wanted to live after that. As my success grew, the effect these toxic folks had on me was minimal until I finally took off.

It’s easier to clear yourself of toxic influences if you don’t think about them at all.

If you can’t make the giant move toward complete freedom yet- let’s say you simply can’t move until the end of a lease or you can’t quit your job until you have a new one- start with not spending an extra ounce of energy on what you don’t want… especially ruminating over how you were wronged or how horrible people have treated you.

Fighting is the worst type of energy.

Then, immediately start consciously creating the new.   Start making the adventure a reality. 

See the exact job, partner, house, company… see it so clearly that you can write every detail on paper with exactitude. Be so daring that you can list it all out in full color and layer on all kinds of sensory information to make it even better…

Now, create it every day.  

In the online Camps I’ve seen tons of strongly intentioned people get new dream jobs and leave drama in the dust, or get promoted out of close proximity to vampire chaos… I’ve done it many times, and it’s never failed me. Search for what you need and you’ll be amazed at how much less the bullying toxic vibes bother you as you’re quietly creating your new adventure.

And, of course, constantly do all you can to lift your energy higher and higher.

Create a high-energy routine for yourself to keep your personal energy soaring.

Create new exercise programs, new additions to your diet, new sleep habits… 

Create new art practices, new meditations, new healing regimes…

The higher your energy, the more resilient you’ll be and the faster you’ll bounce back from any toxic energy that comes near you!

We’ll never live in a perfect universe, but we can create a far more perfect universe from that flexibility of motion. If you feel like you’re in a situation of a breaking point, start creating the new for yourself today. Make an ideal scenario and fill in the pieces of your plan diligently.

You will get there…to total freedom… and, all the while, day by day, you’ll keep growing higher and happier!

xoxo Dana

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