How can you create what you want right now in the easiest way possible?

You know the answer, or the route to that answer, already.  In fact, I bet you know the answer to solve and catalyze so many things that are puzzling, frustrating, seemingly hard to solve and otherwise perplexing or stuck.

I spent a ton of time looking for “answers” outside of myself that I could never find.  It was like the more I looked, the further the answers were.

It’s funny, the more time I spent dwelling on what I didn’t know and how stuck I felt and how I had to figure it all out, the more “answers” I found that were totally not the answer and the more I grew frustrated and almost convinced that I was being “unrealistic.”

Ugh, I really don’t like that word: “unrealistic.”

It implies that there are some things that are on a “realistic” list and others that are not on that “realistic” list are things that you can’t have.

Do you think any progress or evolution would happen in life if we were all “realistic”?  Do you think you’d ever be able to do anything you dream of doing if you were “realistic.”

?!?!

No, of course not.

Because there’s no such thing as realistic, you know?

There’s only what we imagine to be real.

I have been playing around lately with fifth dimension manifestation.  It’s basically diving into the idea that you’re like a magnet drawing to you everything you want in a sort of moment-by-moment fashion.  I’ll get into this more in some videos or posts very soon, but the core of all of it is a willingness to let go of a sense of “reality” that can hold us captive to it’s limits. 

So, what does this have to do with getting things that we want far more easily?

Well, first of all, your whole mind loves questions.  Both your conscious and subconscious mind love questions.  It opens doors to ask questions!

So, one easy idea to access your inner guidance easily is to ask yourself questions.

How can I get this more easily?

How can I innovate….communicate… with more effective power?

What should I focus on to get what I need…?

Whatever you need, ask yourself about it.

I do this in a journal lately, totally informally, when I’m stuck.  I sort of shut down my mind and see what answers fly onto the page.  I also have friends who challenge me with questions like this and it’s quite a trip to see just how much one question can crack the world wide open…!

One other easy idea to take lot of the stuckness out of your days so things really do come easier:  Live in expectation of awesome things.  Even if it feels super-foreign, you may want to give it a try!

I’ve done this about ten thousand times: I’ll need to create something, then I get deep in my head about it, I start wondering and that turns fast into worrying and, then, ultimately, I freak out when I can’t quite believe that anything is going to happen because I’m so lost in my head and trying to see “how it will happen.”

Oh man, I have suffered from wanting to know the steps of how everything would unfold.  I wanted some sense of security that I was mapping certain success and certain things.  It was the ultimate mind-numbing darkness to be stuck in, unable to move forward because I didn’t really know how it would all happen.

A want of control was my curse.

When I realized that I couldn’t bear another self-inflicted meltdown and all it’s stress, I decided I had nothing to lose by expecting in a “crazy” and “unrealistic” way that everything would work out.

I asked myself that big question: “What can I do that will make things easier?”

My mind/spirit’s answer: ” Give 100% and start expecting it will all work out.”

It was a very worthy experiment!

I lasted about two days.  Turns out it felt crazy to live this way because I wanted some guarantee that things would work out and I didn’t trust that without all my intensity and worry that things would be OK.  I quit pretty quickly on the idea of expecting things would happen that were awesome and I retreated to stress, control and meltdowns because they were FAMILIAR. I didn’t really get much done, I lived in a world where I could only go so far before I hit my “limit” and I felt that it was endless.

Turns out, we actually store familiar emotions in our bodies, like an addiction.  Like all addiction, we can learn a new way.  I promise, it’s worth the “work” to get familiar with feeling joy, peace, spaciousness and the grateful expectation of awesome things.

I tried this experiment again of following my inner guidance, this time being a lot easier on myself. It was way easier, just waking up every day and expecting something amazing would happen.  More often than not, amazing things happened.  I didn’t trust that I could live like this in all of life, but I figured this was an easy gradient to try this out.

Then, it was tempting to try this with creativity, and it was working… and, then, in business….

Things did get a lot easier!   It’s more familiar to me to feel awesome than to feel stress.  It’s more familiar to be pleasantly surprised than spun out in worry.

I’m more ready to ask myself the big questions and actually do my best to follow the answers.

These are long-term awesome changes, but totally life-changing.

While I don’t know the answers you’ll get when you ask yourself ” How you I get more of what you want with more ease?”, I do feel pretty confident that you’ll have some great ideas.  And, I’m even more confident that if you lean into expecting even a tiny bit more of what you want, it can make a vast difference in what you notice, experience and soon start to see as normal.

It’s a move from living in ways “that are realistic ” to creating your reality, and while it’s practical, it’s also so magical.

xoxo Dana

P.S.: If you want to really immerse yourself in the light of joy so much more, my favorite Feng Shui and cutting-edge energy-shifting tools that I use almost every day are HERE for you in the Joy Immersion: 30 Day Negativity Detox! 

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