While teachers may be apt to tell you that writing is a craft and a skill with rules and order, and to some degree that is the case, writing is also therapy.
In an interesting move when I was 22 years old I fled to New York from Los Angeles, got an apartment in Hell’s Kitchen back in the days when I would need to walk over people smoking what I finally came to know as a crack pipe to get into my stifling second floor apartment, and wrote a novel based on my life thus far. Learning to type with one hand and smoke/drink coffee with the other ( I later became an early adopter of passionate yoga practice and ditched this insanity!) , I created a piece of fictional fact that took three months to type one-handed from the depths of my very caffeinated soul.
The day I finished, having started at 8pm the prior night and stayed up until the 6am sun filled my industrial sublet, the very last moment, I sat at a big metal desk and felt the words as I said them out loud until I cried. I actually cried myself to sleep. I woke up later that day, elated. That was a big day.
I feel that writing may primarily be therapy.
Indeed, the New York Times Magazine just last year mused on the decline in traditional talk therapy and the rise in writing workshops. THIS article by Steve Almond explains well the very circular argument surrounding the idea of writing as therapy. Autobiographical writing has been used in Gestalt therapy and found particularly enlightening for seniors to reflect upon and even re-frame the span of their lives in words. Method writing workshops (THIS one in LA in particular) – similar to method acting in that you really become one with the story you are telling in a profound way- have transformed the moods and the expressiveness of many of my friends.
And, when I finished writing that first book, I was able to let go of 2 years of life madness that I thought would forever own me in my own guilt. I was free.
I am not a therapist. Therapists are not for me. Writing has been self-reflective, soul-searching alchemy in my own life. Writing your life story, in particular, is a certain kind of therapeutic action.
You may not ever want to publish it, you may have no desire to be detailed, you may feel you don’t know how to write… but writing may just help you find more purpose, your own voice and new direction. Writing may actually bring you freedom.
If you don’t know where to begin, try grabbing a copy of The Artist’s Way book by Juila Cameron. You may find it increasingly easy to write while working through the creativity exercises that “feng shui” your creative mind clear of self-defeating words, and the clutter pf excuses and everyday life obstacles. Create a space at home to actually write. Get yourself pens or a notebook. I love old-school Composition books. I love Bic pens. you may not start writing your life’s story… but over time it seems that it’s impossible- no matter how fictional the scenario- to avoid writing from your life. All this writing also gives you a great reason to go live more, to write the next chapters…!
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