While there’s an undeniable power in the families we are all born in, full of karma and connection, the walls don’t stop at your family tree. My whole life I grew up with cousins who weren’t “real” cousins, aunts that weren’t my “aunt” in a geanological sense… and then there are so many friends that are family.
Some have called it a Soul Family.
I love this idea:
“When you look back at your life, you will see there are many people who have had an impact on it. All of these people are your soul mates, and whether they know it or not on the personality level, they love you dearly for you are all working together towards one singular goal, and that is the goal of love.
“When we meet someone and an instant friendship or attraction occurs, does that mean that this is a soul mate and that we have been together in past lives?”
What it means is that there is compatibility in vibration, and this generally means that there is a connection of sorts. Whether that soul be from your Soul Family, Group, Clan, or Nation, there is a connection, a similarity of goal, purpose, experience, and therefore vibration.”
Celebrating a much larger sphere of influence- your Soul Family- is where it’s at.
We collect together our Soul Family. Even though we’re all connected, those who share our common missions have a high prority to find us, to create and synergize and grow together. It’s part of why it’s so important to keep your vibes high and your life happy, so you’ll find them, they’ll find you… and you’ll achieve your mission together.
Soul Families have missions. They aren’t just meant to ride off into the sunset. They’re meant to make life happen together, collectively.
Two more concepts that are beautiful and true:
Soul family connections are the most loving, supportive, nurturing and compassionate on earth. The connection is hugely powerful and undeniable. You two will be drawn together by forces stronger than any earthly conditions (i.e. gender, age, marital status). You may express the connection in a romantic coupling, or by becoming the very best of friends. This person will always feel like family.
Soul family relationships have the greatest longevity. Of any relationship, this is the one that will last a lifetime (and beyond). The connection provides such amazing love and support, that no other relationship can surpass.
The more I miss the now-transcended core of my birth family, the more I’m reminded of the Soul Family around me that continues to expand. Sometimes I feel my mom and dad and aunts and grandma pull strings in the universe to bring me more gifts of people I can’t imagine living without. People who make me feel the ground under my feet, a head full of stars… and even people who believe in unicorns.
Stay in more light spaces and stick close to your passions.
Move away from people who shrink your space and make you question yourself (*they squash your vibe and pull you off track)
Make time for and bring your best to the people you love.
Collect and grow that Soul Family of your own. It’s the true definition of success, power and every other concept attributed to a life of greatness. It’s real love. It’s unbreakable. It’s something- and so many someones- to celebrate every single day!
If you need some help getting the stress out of the way so you can connect to that soul family in a positive way, detox the negativity from your life. You might need to grieve some stuff, you might need to forgive, you might need to love you a bit (or a lot) more… and you can. Just keep choosing the happy stuff and let yourself feel everything!
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